August 25
The Speech
of the Wise
Proverbs 10:19
When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.
Daily Steps
This final entry on the discipline of the tongue (Day 237) provides the new believer with a simple, memorable metric for wise conversation. It encourages thoughtful silence over reckless speech: When words are many, sin is not absent.
The peace in this principle is found in strategic silence:
The Peril of Excess: The warning is clear: When words are many, sin is not absent. The more you talk, the higher the risk of saying something careless, false, boastful, or unkind (The Power of Words, Day 235). Excessive talking increases the likelihood of gossip, offense, and error, all of which destroy peace.
The Wisdom of Restraint: The opposite is affirmed as true wisdom: he who holds his tongue is wise. This act of restraint is a powerful display of self-control (Day 236) and maturity. The ability to be silent—to listen more and speak less—is a fundamental expression of godly wisdom (The Beginning of Wisdom, Day 231).
The Result is Purity: Holding your tongue is a proactive step toward purity (Day 233) and integrity (Day 220). By limiting your words, you limit your exposure to sin and protect yourself and others from unnecessary relational conflict, ensuring a lasting, quiet tranquility.
Your peace is secured by strategic silence. Embrace the wisdom to hold your tongue, knowing that restraint protects you from sin and allows your few, well-chosen words to carry greater power and contribute to peace.
Reflective Question
In what situation (e.g., social setting, office meeting, family argument) are you most likely to speak excessively? How can you commit today to cutting your words in half, trusting that he who holds his tongue is wise?
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I confess my tendency toward excess and the sin that creeps in when my words are many. I pray for the wisdom and discipline to hold my tongue today, so that my speech may be measured and righteous.
Secure my peace by reminding me that silence is often a greater expression of humility and maturity than many words. Amen.
