How should Christians use social media?
Introduction
Social media is one of the most powerful tools in modern life. It can connect us with family, educate us instantly, and facilitate global ministry. However, it can also be a source of anxiety, envy, wasted time, and spiritual destruction. For the Christian, the question is not whether to be on social media, but how to be godly while using it.
The Bible, though written long before the internet, provides timeless, universal principles for communication, stewardship, and witness that apply directly to our digital lives. We must use social media as a tool for Christ, ensuring it never becomes a master of our time or a vehicle for our sin.
Three Biblical Principles for Digital Discipleship
A Christ-honoring use of social media must be guided by the principles of Stewardship (Time), Sanctification (Speech), and Mission (Witness).
1. Stewardship of Time and Focus (The Principle of Wisdom)
The first issue is the sheer amount of time and mental energy social media consumes. We are called to use our time wisely.
Redeeming the Time: Paul commands us to be intentional about how we spend our days: “Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil” (Ephesians 5:15-16). This means setting clear boundaries.
Guard Against Distraction: Social media is designed to capture and hold attention. Christians must actively fight against the "scroll trap" (as discussed in Question 34).
Practical Application: Set strict time limits for apps. Schedule a daily "digital Sabbath"—an hour or more when all non-essential screens are put away for focused prayer, rest, or fellowship.
2. Sanctification of Speech (The Principle of Grace)
Social media often brings out the worst in our speech, encouraging impulsive, angry, and judgmental communication. The Christian must commit to godly speech online as much as in person.
Building Up, Not Tearing Down: The core command for Christian communication is that it should be constructive: “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29). This rule applies fully to comments, posts, and direct messages.
The "Pause and Pray" Rule: Before posting anything that involves cultural controversy, a sharp critique, or emotional reaction, Christians should pause, pray, and ask three questions:
Is it true? (Commitment to accuracy and humility).
Is it loving? (Commitment to charity and respect).
Is it necessary? (Commitment to intentional communication).
Fighting Pride: Guard against using social media for self-aggrandizement, seeking validation through "likes," or engaging in endless debate solely to prove yourself right.
3. Fulfilling the Mission (The Principle of Witness)
Social media is a modern mission field—a unique opportunity to shine the light of Christ to a broad audience.
Let Your Light Shine: Christians are called to be salt and light in the world. Your conduct and content should draw attention to Christ: “In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:16).
Using Platforms for Good: Use your platforms to:
Encourage: Affirm and build up fellow believers.
Share Gospel Truth: Post thoughtful content that points to Jesus and biblical truth, done with grace and patience.
Promote Justice and Good Works: Share opportunities to serve, give, and care for the vulnerable.
Conclusion
Social media is not inherently good or evil; it is a powerful tool. As a Christian, you must govern your use of it with self-control, wisdom, and a clear sense of purpose.
Use it to build bridges, not walls; to share truth, not malice; and to connect with God's people and the world for the glory of Christ. Your goal is to be a digital disciple, ensuring that your online footprint reflects the grace and truth of the Savior who redeemed your life.
