When a child comes out as gay or transgender, the Christian response must immediately prioritize unconditional love and affirmation of the child's identity as a person made in God’s image (Genesis 1:27), while simultaneously upholding the biblical definition of marriage and human sexuality. The goal is to keep the relationship open, grounded in grace, and centered on Christ, reflecting the Father's love (1 John 4:8).

The essential role of Christian parents is to be the primary disciple-makers in their home, a critical task in today's secular society. This involves intentionally integrating faith into daily life (Deuteronomy 6:7), teaching a biblical worldview, and actively modeling a life transformed by the Gospel. By prioritizing spiritual instruction and acting as media gatekeepers, parents equip their children to be independent, counter-cultural followers of Christ.