The Christian teaching on forgiveness has two necessary components: Internal Forgiveness and Relational Reconciliation. Internal forgiveness (releasing bitterness and the desire for revenge) is always mandatory, regardless of the other person's repentance, because it is an act of obedience to God that frees you (Luke 6:37). Relational reconciliation (restoring trust and fellowship) can and should be withheld if the offender shows no genuine repentance, as Jesus Himself instructed (Matthew 18:15-17). Unconditional forgiveness frees your heart; conditional reconciliation protects it.

The Bible defines marriage exclusively as the union of a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24). Same-sex attraction is viewed in traditional theology as a real consequence of the Fall (Romans 8:22), requiring repentance and a call to holiness, which for all unmarried Christians (including those who are gay) means a life of celibacy in service to Christ (1 Corinthians 6:18).

Can I get saved later? This post addresses the dangerous idea of delaying repentance. We examine the difference between salvation (new birth) and discipleship, looking at Christ’s warning about a life of deliberate sin. Learn why true faith requires an immediate turning of the heart.