The concern that a child will be "damaged" or confused by being raised by same-sex parents primarily stems from the belief that the two-parent structure (male and female) is God's ideal and normative design for raising children (Genesis 2:24). While the Church affirms this ideal, social science research consistently shows that a child’s well-being is primarily determined by the quality of nurture, stability, and parental commitment, rather than parental gender or sexual orientation. A child raised in a loving same-sex home will likely view that structure as normal for their family, but this does not preclude them from learning about and respecting other family forms, including the traditional structure affirmed by the Church. The ethical focus remains on providing love and security (James 1:27) above all else.

The presence of a loving, committed father is vital because it reflects the nature of God, provides essential moral and spiritual authority, and uniquely models security, provision, and discipline. The biblical family structure is foundational for a child's identity, emotional stability, and understanding of their Heavenly Father (Proverbs 22:6; Psalm 103:13).