The Bible does not teach the concept of a singular, predetermined "soul mate" or "the one." God's will for marriage is found by choosing a faithful, godly spouse (2 Corinthians 6:14), intentionally growing together, and committing to make your chosen partner "the one" through lifelong covenant (Proverbs 18:22). Assurance comes through prayer, wise counsel, and alignment with God's Word.

Yes, Christians must avoid the hook-up culture. This practice conflicts with the biblical truth that sex is a covenantal act meant only for marriage (Genesis 2:24). Casual sex is considered sexual immorality and is a unique sin against one's own body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18). The Christian mandate is to pursue holiness and self-control, treating one's body in a way that is holy and honorable (1 Thessalonians 4:4–5; 1 Peter 1:15–16).

The Christian teaching is that sexual intimacy is reserved exclusively for the covenant of marriage, where two people become one flesh (Genesis 2:24). Engaging in sex before this commitment is considered sexual immorality (porneia) and is strongly warned against, as it separates the physical act from its foundational covenant, leading to potential spiritual and emotional harm. Believers are called to flee sexual immorality and practice self-control (1 Corinthians 6:18; 1 Thessalonians 4:3–5).

The Bible clearly instructs Christians not to marry non-Christians. We explore the meaning of being "unequally yoked" (2 Corinthians 6:14) and why marriage requires spiritual unity for mutual sanctification and to fulfill its biblical purpose.